Thursday, July 19, 2007

A Reasonable Expectation

I have a friend who is a Christian and is in the hotel management business. The other day, we were talking about how Jesus calls us to live, and how people proclaiming to be Christians fall so far short of that. He said that during the ski season, the church youth groups (including the adult sponsors) are the worst behaved of all his patrons. He also told me of a recent experience when a well-known Christian speaker came to town for a two-day conference. He said the advance people were rude and demanding and the local planners the same. We both recalled talking with waitresses who dread working the Sunday lunch shift because of the rude customers coming to eat after church.

I am not sure that Christian customers are the worst; it just seems that way to people who expect more of Christians and are routinely disappointed. It seems, often, many Christians become so focused on what they consider important issues, such as abortion, creation/evolution, prayer in schools, and authority of Scripture, those that they deem essential to proclaiming and protecting the Kingdom of God, that they forget how important the treatment of others is in showing the love of Christ. What we do, how we act toward others, is supposed to reflect what we believe. Being rude to a waitress will not persuade her of the kindness of our God. Nor will disrespecting people and property at a hotel lead others to desire to know more about the Jesus we claim to follow.

In his essay, “The Weight of Glory,” C.S. Lewis wrote,

It is a serious thing to live in a society of possible gods and goddesses, to remember that the dullest and most uninteresting person you can talk to may one day be a creature which, if you saw it now, you would be strongly tempted to worship, or else a horror and a corruption such as you now meet, if at all, only in a nightmare. All day long we are, in some degree, helping each other to one or the other of these destinations. It is in the light of these overwhelming possibilities, it is with the awe and circumspection proper to them, that we should conduct our dealings with one another, all friendships, all loves, all play, all politics. There are no ordinary people. You have never talked to a mere mortal.

Weighty words that deserve reflection by those of us who claim to follow our Lord down the narrow path.

What Lewis writes is so crucial to understand if we are to be truly light in the midst of darkness. The reality is people often expect to be treated like crap, just not by Christians. That’s why such treatment always draws attention. They expect something different. I think they have a sense that Jesus would treat them differently and, logically, so would those who claim to follow Him. It’s a reasonable expectation. Now if we could only meet it.

2 comments:

John Hendrix said...

Case in point about why NOT to put Jesus fish on the back of your car. Just last week on NPR's "Car Talk" their interstitial song of the week was titled "I just got the middle finger from an old lady with a 'Honk if you Love Jesus' sticker on her bumper." Yeesh.

John Hendrix said...

Jim, where is your avatar?